External validation and its discontents one of the big lessons about relationships in general, romantic or otherwise, is recognizing that it only goes well when you are able to be you, without the need for external validation this sounds pretty basic, and yet if you pay attention to your interactions with others for any extended period of time, you'll.
Stop seeking validation from others we are all different people who have different tastes, different ideals, different perspectives and different opinions just accept that some people are bound to dislike you, and it’s nobody’s fault. For the external world is ever evolving, and the chase for the external validation which we’ve been raised is all that is achievable (the nicest car, the most money, the best job) is an elusive one, and we can never rest in happiness.
You stop seeking external validation by developing internal validation be your own parent reward yourself talk to yourself develop your own goals, then set your own rewards when you achieve them and provide your own feedback - to yourself. The same posters who do the whole self-belief/internal validation are the same ones who would yell their heads off if i started a thread about how i hit on a really hot guy and got shot down you're apparently allowed to have an internal belief that you're attractive, but only so far as it doesn't conflict with other people's opinion of you. Mgtow – external validation: the fuel for dating addiction mgtow men, welcome back i’m looking forward to talking about the topic today, which came through a twitter direct message some of the best topics that i’ve received have just come off the cuff from twitter, so, don’t hesitate to hit me up there.
The need for external validation becomes mute i’m more interested in growing as a person and broadening my horizons than worrying how someone else is going to perceive me as an example, i was one of those students who sat in the first or second row and asked questions especially when the professor was doing a lousy job of explaining. My parents realised from a young age that i was content to sit by myself and read and draw and i didn’t demand attention and i didn’t need playing with or anything i thought this would mean that i wouldn’t need external validation but it didn’t work out like that. Discussion how important is external validation and positive feedback to someone's emotional health, self-esteem they should try being friends with women first before they even worry about dating see women as people first with human flaws instead of just trying to date them all the time they need to not let rejection hurt them so.
What is validation validation is basically the confirmation or affirmation that someone’s feelings are valid or worthwhile there are two types of validation and they include, external and internal validation check.
If you step back and think about why you’re looking for validation, you may not actually pursue the validation anymore, because you see that there is a bigger. Toxic personalities in human relationships in part 1 of the solely external validation-seeker, i talked about individuals who possess this personality trait it’s a toxic trait that will eventually destroy your relationship with that person if you’re someone who has deeper aspects to his/her personality. Attention trap part 1: narcissism, validation and self-worth love and self-worth can come from internal or external sources posted jun 10, 2013.